Thursday, December 4, 2008




I'am a 27 single mother of two, and recently found out i was pregnant. I told the father and he acted like he was ok with my choice to keep the baby. Further down the line his phone majically was cut off and i was stuck with being a single parent of three. I made the choice of adoption. I found an agency and started my journey. It was hard being alone, pregnant and having opinons put upon you. After countless profiles, I found the perfect family for my baby boy. What drew me to them you say?? The soon to be mother was adopted herself. And would know how he would feel. She has a wonderful relationship with her birthmother and that made me soo happy. And wanted an open adoption. I asked my worker would it be ok to ask the family to be there when i deliver. And they were estatic that i would want them there. They're from Oregon. And flew to Galveston, TX to meet. We spunt the whole weekend getting to know each other, swaping family stories, and getting to know me. My Jea is what i call her. We met Saturday and Sunday, August 3 at 10:23pm Zyler Kendall James came in this world. And the family was right there by my side. My Jea right there holding my hand. I was sooo happy, because that day she became a mom. And Chris became a dad. They stayed in the room with me. In this tiny lil room with three people in it. Chris made sure i was comfortable and they gave me my pain meds. My Jea made sure i didnt have to eat the cafeteria food....yuk! When the day came to sign the papers, the day before i cried my eyes out looking at this lil baby that i carried and wishing things could be different. But, signing those papers, I knew i was making a wonderful choice. I love this family soo much. I know there will be more days of crying, but we always stay in touch. Either im getting a new email with pictures or a suprise pic text on my phone. I'm so glad of the choices I've made. A piece of me is forever with these two people...My Jea & Chris
They are so deserving of being parents, and I'm glad i could be apart of this special occasion!!

ADOPTION IS A WONDERFUL BLESSING. A SELFLESS ACT OF LOVE FROM THE BIRTHMOTHER AND GIVING ANOTHER A CHANCE TO BECOME ONE

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